Monday, January 12, 2009

Catholic Wedding Traditions

A Catholic wedding is rich in tradition and ritual. The wedding rite is known as the Sacrament of Marriage and is one of the seven sacraments in the Catholic religion.However, it's not a requirement. This tradition initially replaced the Protestant question which was asked at the ceremony whether if anyone knew of a reason the bride and groom should not marry.
The Sacrament itself takes place during a mass and this mass is known as a Nuptial Mass. It's usually held in the morning or early afternoon. Nuptial Masses are not usually scheduled for Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, or during those hours on Sunday when Mass is said.
The Nuptial Mass itself consists of several parts. There are at least three biblical readings, exchange of vows, exchange of rings, the Prayer of the Faithful, and the nuptial blessing.As a couple prepares for their wedding, there are several aspects to keep in mind. Flowers are encouraged,the church feels the symbolism behind the unity candle doesn't capture the essence of the sacrament. Unity candles are usually encouraged for the rehearsal dinner, but its best to discuss its placement with the priest conducting the ceremony. but they must stay in the church. They are part of the wedding scene and should remain for all to share.A Liturgy of the Word includes readings from the Old and New Testaments which can be tailored for the bride and groom. After a homily, there is the exchange of vows, and then the exchange of rings. After the Prayer of the Faithful, the Liturgy of the Eucharist is said. Before leaving, the priest offers the Nuptial blessing. If there's no Liturgy of the Eucharist.The rings the bride and groom give each other is a sign of their fidelity and that comes from early Roman customs. Holding hands during the ceremony also comes from early Roman marriage customs. Having a groom give a ring of gold is reminiscent of early German customs where the groom presents a bride with a dower.

No comments:

Post a Comment